After a few very heavy days of unpacking pain and engaging pathologies as they pertain to sex, it seems high time to deal with what SHOULD be the fun part: the sex! We’ve all had “Better Than No Sex” sex or “That Wasn’t Worth The Hours Of Sleep” sex. I don’t know about y’all, but I am all about the business of making any sex that I’m having great.
Before you can be comfortable with your partner, you have to be comfortable with YOURSELF! If you didn’t get a chance to check out Monday’s piece, I wanted to emphasize the need to look at yourself in the mirror and be turned on. What’s sexy about someone who doesn’t find his or herself to be sexy? Very little. If you can’t disrobe for for yourself without focusing 100% of your attention on what’s wrong with you, then you will project that same lack of confidence to your partner. Taking what ever steps you need to address those issues as they exist outside of the bedroom will likely create an improved sense of freedom in the bedroom.
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Let's Talk About Sex Postive 3: And Doing It Well
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